Financial Control

Adeel, 44, worked full-time, but his partner controlled every pound. Adeel was given an allowance for groceries. He could not open his own bank accounts without her inputs. If he questioned a purchase, she yelled, or threatened to withhold essentials.

“I was earning money, but I had no control. She said, 'If you leave, you get nothing.' — That terrified me.”

Evidence & Facts

☑ Financial abuse is a recognised form of domestic abuse under UK law.

☑ It includes restricting access to money, monitoring spending, or sabotaging work.

☑ Economic control leaves victims trapped, even when they want to leave.

Safety Plan — Financial Abuse

☑ Secret savings: Set aside small amounts where possible.

☑ Document control: Keep copies of bank statements (if safe).

☑ Independent financial advice: Talk to a trusted advisor.

☑ Safe accounts: Open a personal bank account outside the abuser’s access.

UK Support:

• National Debtline — 0808 808 4000

• Citizens Advice — www.citizensadvice.org.uk

• ManKind Initiative — www.mankind.org.uk